Of course, just because the man is unattached doesn’t mean he is as attracted to you as you are to him. You should definitely go out for a coffee or drink to find out if he shares your feelings.
You talk of an office scandal that hit the papers, but I doubt that two single people falling in love would be of any interest to anyone. Most people love happy endings, so let’s hope that it all works out for you.
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Dear Victoria,
I really do object to employers trying to prevent colleagues from starting romantic relationships. We are all human and it is inevitable that there will be attraction between co-workers.
I suppose I could just keep on lusting from afar. Unless, that is, you can suggest a way for me to suggest a coffee outside the office or a drink to see how he may feel and how we could start something. I like my job and would like to progress to a more senior role.
Yours, Victoria
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Dear Nicola,
During the Christmas break, I found myself thinking almost obsessively about a colleague. I have always thought the guy to be rather hot, but I now realise that I am seriously attracted to him and would like to start a relationship.
